Here’s why men love to ask me if I am a goddess in bed — The first man to ask me if I was a goddess while making love was a sexy jazz musician. I was younger then, and more wild. I knew so much less about sex, pleasure, BDSM, and kink. Still, I was the type of girl who had been standing, just a few hours earlier, on a New York City subway platform in stilettos, hair still…

It’s about ownership and freedom I had identified as poly for about five years when the most unexpected thing happened; I met the love of my life. Blood pumping with love chemicals, for months on end, I wanted nothing more than to be with only him, to touch him, taste…

Why good girls are bad in bed — Again today, a lover told me that I was the best sex of his life. He was feeling feisty, having just become a father a few months ago, and we were reminiscing. As is always the case when I hear this comment, I was taken aback. …

A page from an unfolding poly love story — Six months and a day Another perfect meeting. From first touch to last kiss, I wouldn’t change a thing. When he arrived I was on the phone, speaking Hebrew. I came up behind him, kissed his neck. Everything about him feels…

Caution — This article is full of spoilers about this great work of modern fiction As a writer, I am in awe of truly great writers; none more so than Richard Powers, author of The Overstory. The Overstory won the 2019 Pulitzer Prize in fiction and is Powers’s twelfth novel…

A page from an unfolding poly love story — Six Months I want so badly to believe that he is real, that he has arrived, the answer to my prayers. And it is true, seeing him, the first instant of it makes me smile ear to ear. I am so…

Invite us inside of your nitty gritty journey towards finally growing up Submission Guidelines Pre-modern societies knew nothing of “adolescence” and established the age of adulthood somewhere near puberty. Today, brain imaging studies demonstrate that the human brain is in growth-mode until at least age twenty five. On the “nurture” side of…

Tell me, how many days old were you when you felt ready to say, “Yes! Now I am an adult.” Becoming a grown-up is nearly impossible. I am convinced that most of us have never done it. Throughout human history, I mean. I am convinced that until now, most have…

Rather than get divorced, I became a writer Before we get too far into things, let me be clear. This is not the story of a woman who took to Medium to save her marriage. I am sure that those women are out there — or, in here — but…