Coming out comes in all shapes and sizes
I’ve tried to write this “About Me” entry many times. After all, I love reading them. I love that Medium is a social network for over-sharers, a place where sharing the life-experience that shaped one’s perspective is the rule, not the exception.
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A poem
Tantric sex is sex in full contact. A tantrika, or a devotee of tantra, practices in every moment, not only during sex. When walking, eating, sleeping, touching, building, working, loving, a tantrika aims to bring the fullness of awareness into the present moment.
The Great Union, the term…
Questions for my feminist sisters
As a sexuality writer in my mid-40s, I find myself standing in a chasm, on one side a sea of wanting, sexually repressed, desirous men and on the other side of the chasm, a sea of lonely women who so deeply want someone to love…
If Medium insists on acting like a cool kid of silicon valley, at least do it from the cutting edge
Unlike its Board of Directors, Medium content creators know that the platform has a good thing going. Had it built in incentives for writers to recruit new readers from the…
But life gets in the way…
It is a lament that stems from heartbreak. It is a lament that applies to most humans for most of their lives. The lament is mine, but I know it could be so much worse, as my only adversary is life. Just that. Not…
I am dating a delicious new man; kind and thoughtful, he texts me daily to tell me that my pleasure is his first priority. He is a delight.
The first time sex became something that we might imminently do, we found ourselves in the shower. …
Last night, I gave a really good blow job…
I know this based on the exquisite rolling moans that rippled from the mouth of my new lover as he climaxed in waves of ecstasy. He has also already texted twice, interrupting my writing of this story to tell me just…
Simple ways to save the planet, now
I’m a big fan of Jessica Wildfire. I am pretty sure that she is my second favorite writer on Medium. Second or third. (1. Yael Wolfe, 2. Tim Denning 3. Jessica Wildfire). I like that she writes in equal parts about love and…
There is only one recipe for success on Medium. It has never changed. It is not going to change. This is it.
From my desktop feed, it is clear that the Medium algorithm has ascertained that I read articles about the great downfall of the platform. A full third of…
